Children learn more from what we do than from what we say. If we want them to use social media and devices responsibly, we must start by setting an example ourselves.
School WhatsApp groups are meant to facilitate communication, not to resolve personal conflicts. They are not the place for your gym buddies or your in-laws.
Do not use insults, make threats, or be disrespectful, and do not try to resolve matters via WhatsApp that require a face-to-face conversation. A message can easily be misinterpreted, turning a disagreement into a major conflict.
If someone does not reply to your message, respect their silence. They may not have seen it, might need time to think of a response, might not know what to say, or may simply have decided not to reply. If a conversation becomes inappropriate, do not participate, or leave the group. And if you make a mistake, apologize.
Remember that behind every message is a person who deserves respect. Other families should not have to put up with your outbursts, insults, or threats.
As adults, it is not our role to resolve your personal conflicts. However, we do have a responsibility to protect our students and set a good example for them.
Insulting or threatening others on social media can have legal consequences and, in certain circumstances, constitute a crime.
This, too, is part of parenting: teaching—through our own behavior—how we want our children to treat others.
